No. It’s not okay. I don’t care what excuse you’ve come up with to make yourself feel better. I don’t care if he says he hates her, shes annoying, that they’re basically over, she’s crazy (eye roll). It’s still not okay. Leave taken men alone! Trust me. What is for you is for you. That is for her, so keep your hands off! I mean come on…Why would God (the universe) send YOU someone who is already taken. Why Shirley! That’s not how it works. So….Hey girl heyyyy LEAVE HIM ALONE. Wait for yours. The shower head will be your friend in the meantime. Trust me.